Butterfly effect

There are some moments in our life which determine the rest directions. Like some event of 1-2 hour duration predestine your next 5 years. You are very smart if able to recognize this moment and make it work properly for the welfare. But usually you have got it was key moment after while, when it is too late to change anything. I love Butterfly effect movie however I consider it is as scary, horror genre, which I actually hate. And reconsidering everything what happened that evening I can say there were no chance to make it work other way and there were just little chance to get where I wanted and what I wanted. If only it was possible to roll back...